Teachings of Tzun Tzun Hsue
What are some keys to success in life?
I believe it is Focus, Intention and Integrity. None of these things have to do with right or wrong. To be successful I really believe is a process of creation. And I also believe when you're too much in the ego and out of balance with everything, you can't create. You have to start working on being open to seeing that. There are many components, but focus, intention and integrity are key. Most people don't want to look at that. They want to look at things their own way, with their ego, not look at what is necessary to create success.
How can you tell when someone is blasting with their energy?
Pay attention to your own reaction. There is always a reason for everything.
How can you tell when someone is listening?
I can tell because I can feel the difference. I can tell by the type of questions they're asking. I can tell because they're tuning in, attempting to understand, not trying to analyze, trying to control the conversation or their thoughts. There's that desire to seek clarity rather than seeking to validate their process.
Do you have any tips for dealing with difficult people?
For one, people have to understand, why is it that person is being difficult? Is it something that they're doing or something that I'm doing? There will always be some difficult people in the world. Start staying out of reaction and judgments. The more you react and judge, you're creating even more conflict. Both sides trying to be right makes it even more difficult. People believe there is an absolute right and an absolute wrong. we don't allow everyone to have their own opinion, even if we don't agree with it. be as flexible as you can but be firm about what you need to be firm about. Don't let it get into wrong and right. That's what makes people difficult to deal with, our ego vs. their ego. Flexibility is an important key to any form of communication.
What do you wish people would ask?
People need to ask themselves, "What is it I want to get out of this?" You can ask this for small and big things. What do I want to get out of my life vs. what do I want to get out of this conversation. You don't have to have an answer but have some insight into it. most people don't ask this. If you're not aware of that, you're not going to figure out some of the things you need to pull in. You're not going to figure out some of the things you need to listen to, or you need to reject.
Nothing is based on right or wrong, but as far as some of the directions that one takes, you won't be able to redirect yourself. You want to be in a place where those things don't get to you. In the beginning it is a filtering until you learn how to redirect yourself. The problem that most people have, they can mentally make sense of what I said, but part of the problem is how to put it into action, and that's where people need help.
I got help, not just from my teacher, but also interactions with others, my meditation with myself, and my spiritual development. There were a lot of people that helped me and some did not realize that they helped me. I could say I had a lot of help. Some people who really got in the way helped me. By their own actions, they showed me how not to design my roadmap. That's what they taught me.
I had to go through it, just like everybody else, through my experiences and connections. The more and more flexibility a person has, the more doorways can open for them. But that's why I like to view everything from infinity. seeing in one thought an infinite number of possibilities and probabilities, rather than a single thought. It has nothing to do with fantasy.
How do you practice waking up as a new person every day?
People get stuck and tend to hold onto who they are. They hold onto yesterday's experiences, yesterday's pictures. that's why they can't be present and connect to today's picture. We have these arrays of multi-personalities and multi-dimensions that are always changing and growing. When you won't let go of yesterday, you won't let go of the person they belonged to yesterday.
In order to wake up as a new person every day, you have to practice letting go of who you are. You have to let go of defining yourself as who you are. You can't see yesterday and today as different. let go of your ego, let go of your control, not just a little bit, TOTALLY. you have to let go of all your resistance, and arguments. You have to let go of all of those things that you believe about yourself and the things around you.
That's a tall order because you're taught to view yourself in this limited view. Because of this view, you can't see the big universe.
You look around and see what your eyes tell you. I see that too but I also see the molecules, the particles, the expansion. I see things that are formless, I see dimensions, And I see all of those things at the same time. So I think that's the real difference.
